The Law of Reciprocity
The Art Of Creating A Neverending Cosmic Circle Of Giving and Receiving!

 

"It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."

Ralph Waldo Emerson

First, Create And Be The Change...

The Forgiveness Project

At a time when scenes of atrocity, conflict and crime fill our TV screens and newspapers, when tit-for-tat killings, attacks and counter-attacks seem to grab all the headlines, The Forgiveness Project aims to tell the quieter, less publicized stories of reconciliation.

The Forgiveness Project tells the important stories of people who have discovered that the only way to move on in life, is to lay aside hatred and blame.  

Learn more about The Forgiveness Project here and...Create And Be The Change!

www.theforgivenessproject.com

"It is better to perform one's own duties imperfectly than to master the duties of another. By fulfilling the obligations he is born with, a person never comes to grief."

The Bhagavad Gita

Musical Interlude: Although I have many favorites, "Hey Jude" is my most favorite Beatles song. Of course, I don't really need to go into introductions here. 

We ARE talking about The Beatles!

So, without further ado, here is an awesome live performance video of the Beatles performing their timeless classic, Hey Jude:

http://tinyurl.com/p9wnla

And...Check out "Hey Jude - The Toddler Version! This is so cute!

http://tinyurl.com/6fga6b

Before We Get To "The Law of Reciprocity"...

In the amazing one hour audio book by the incomparable Alice Walker titled "We Are The Ones We Have Been Waiting For!" the Pulitzer Prize Winning Walker brings us a collection of meditations that draw equally on her spiritual grounding and her progressive convictions.

Taking on some of the greatest challenges of our times, Walker encourages listeners to have faith that despite the overwhelming situations we find ourselves in, we are prepared to create positive change.

Receive this truly awesome audio book from Alice...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/qos4zs

Also...

There is one simple act - JUST ONE - that can easily eliminate the obstacles that keep you wanting.  Just one simple choice can open your mind and heart to RECEIVE FULLY...and then the future you imagine can come to you. 

Download a valuable audio titled,"The Power And Profit Of Receiving"...absolutely Free now!

http://tinyurl.com/3c3we3

Plus...

Receive this wonderful audio download from Bruce Painter, author of the best selling book "The Giving Zone" titled, "Giving Intelligence"...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/5dpw8f 

And...

From Master Coaches, Jeanna Gabellini and Eva Gregory comes "Magnificent Receiver", a 5 Week Ecourse which will show you how to receive more abundance! 

If you want to begin allowing the Law Of Attraction to work for you in a more effortless manner, this Course will assist you in getting in the zone. 

Access it absolutely Free and also receive the "Financial Fortune" newsletter, in which they show you how the Law Of Attraction Meets Financial Strategy. 

Receive this truly wonderful Combo gift...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/yatzymf

Also...

Are You Doing Inspired Action Or Are You Just Working To Pay For Everything? 

Are you a Work-A-Holic? 

Do you think you have to work all the time? Do you have time to enjoy life? Do you have time to think? Do you have time to let inspiration come to you? 

Chris Sherrod, Founder of Abundance Unlimited, has been there and done that and will teach you the difference between inspiration and workacholicism with a wonderful Special Report, which you can receive...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/5mqmre

Plus...

A Heartwarming Book That Makes You Believe In Yourself!

The amazing Ebook by the legendary Orison Swett Marden titled "How To Get What You Want" is a heart wrenching novel which will motivate you to grander heights! 

Walk boldly through your obstacles in life.  If you don't...who will?

Receive This Life Changing Ebook...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/9kwehc

And...

Can You Conceive Of What It Would Be Like To Make Nearly Instant Self-Change A Reality In Your Life Right Now?

Brainwave Programming Is...The Easy Way To Self-Change!

Here are just a few of the things brainwave programming will help you with:

  • Unlock your hidden mental power that is dormant most of the time.
  • Calm yourself when outside matters upset you - reduce stress and tension without addictive drugs.
  • Interact more positively with others, developing better relationships.
  • Finally get rid of the negative thoughts and negative self-image you've been carrying around for so long...and much, much more!

Learn ALL the exciting details, in addition to receiving a Free Test Drive "Weekend Boost" audio file here:

http://tinyurl.com/6dj5wc

Also...

"Learning Life's Lessons: Volume One" will show you that the secrets for living a happy, peaceful and fulfilled life are simpler than you think!

This wonderful book will teach you how to live your best life...even if you feel completely overwhelmed and under prepared, confused and out of touch with the world.

Receive this truly remarkable Ebook...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/9wh8r3

Plus...

In the inspirational audio program from best selling author Louise L. Hay titled "Receiving Prosperity: How To Attract Wealth, Success & Love Into Your Life", Louise explains how you can use the power of your mind to attract anything you want into your life: 

More money, a rewarding career, fulfilling relationships and more fun!

Once you put a halt to self-criticism and learn to move beyond your limitations, you'll begin attracting more "good" into your life.

Learn how you can receive this truly awesome program from Louise...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/ocpalc

Lastly...

Greatly Enhance Your Financial Sense The Fun & Easy Way - And Take Control Of Your Finances Starting Today!

The amazing Special Report "Develop Your Financial IQ"will help you to:

  • Understand your present financial situation.
  • Realize why you're in your present situation.
  • Break out of your present financial situation.
  • Set a NEW path to financial freedom.
  • Get out of debts and financial burdens.

Receive this fabulous Special Report...absolutely Free here:

http://tinyurl.com/555fgq

First, The Rules:

Mark David Gerson's 10 Rules Of Living:

  1. Rule One - There are no rules.
  2. Rule Two - What works today, may not work tomorrow.
  3. Rule Three - Listen to your heart; it speaks with the voice of God.
  4. Rule Four - Treat yourself as you would your best friend; with love and respect.
  5. Rule Five - It's not what you do, it's how you live.
  6. Rule Six - It's not how often you meditate, it's whether you live your life as a meditation.
  7. Rule Seven - It's not what you shed, it's what you embrace.
  8. Rule Eight - It's not how hard you push, it's how fully you surrender.
  9. Rule Nine - It's not about being perfect, it's about being human.
  10. Rule Ten - There are no rules.

"We all have ability. The difference is how we use it."

Stevie Wonder

Now, On To...

The Law Of Giving & Receiving...And A Turn On A Soap Box!

By Pamela K. Jones

*To print this web page out via email, please send a blank email to the following email address:

lawofreciprocity@sendfree.com

"The more gratefully we fix our minds on the Supreme when good things come to us, the more good things we will receive, and the more rapidly they will come; and the reason simply is that the mental attitude of gratitude draws the mind into closer touch with the source from which all blessings come."

Wallace D. Wattles

I am truly amazed that most people still don't realize that in order to receive, you have to give in gratitude. It's one of the most basic laws of nature. 

"Nature gives all, without reservation, and loses nothing; man or woman, grasping all, loses everything."

James Allen - The Path To Prosperity

There lies the key to it all. It is via us consciously connecting with Nature, which is another name for Source, of which we are always ONE with, whether we consciously know it or not, and acting in accordance with Nature, or "our own nature", that we give all without reservation, and lose nothing, versus forgetting that we are ONE with Nature or believing that we are separate from Nature/Source, and in the process of living from that illusion, we grasp all and, consequently, lose everything.

The Law of Reciprocity, one of the laws of our wonderful Universe, also supports this fact beautifully.

The Law of Reciprocity means: to give and take mutually; to return in kind or even in another kind or degree. The Law of Reciprocity is the very basis for The Secret Wealth Network's Success System, which is why this very web page was created. 

This Success System is predicated on the Reciprocal Giving of AMAZING GIVERS via gifting this website and all of the extraordinary value that it contains...over and over again...and those people doing the same..and so on, and so on, etc. This literally brings to life one of my most favorite quotes...

"Every man (woman) is a link in the chain of my good."

Florence Scovel Shinn

The Law of Reciprocity, (which applies in EVERY culture on the face of the earth), simply explains that when someone gives you something, you feel an obligation to give back. This obligation is not bad, it is very good. I personally use to have a HUGE problem with allowing myself to receive any goodness that was being given to me. This could be something as basic as a compliment of some kind. 

What I finally realized is that whenever I refuse to receive anything that is being willingly given to me, I block my own flow, I stop the cycle, I put a monkey wrench into the mechanical flow of my own Universe. A lot of my resistance had to do with pride, or in some cases, ego. In others, it was a lack of self worth aka self awareness. Whatever the reason, I was literally stopping all the good that was trying to come into my life. 

The bible says, "You reap what you sow." We have heard this bible verse probably since the day that we were born but do we really understand the significance of it? Whatever good you do in this world, you are going to receive it back. 

In fact, you will usually receive back MORE than you gave. This could be something as simple as a smile, a compliment, encouraging words, etc. This is the universal flow in action. You create a wonderful chain of never ending good, and when you resist or reject the good coming to you from that chain, you disrupt the flow of the Universe...the flow of YOUR Universe. It's as simple as that. 

"In giving and sharing you always have more. It seems arithmetically as though one would have less but, in fact, giving expands whatever one has."

Mark Victor Hansen

When you open yourself up to receive the good that is coming to you, the good that is your divine right to receive, this opens you up to give even more and the goodness chain continues on and on, cycling back and forth, to infinity. If you don't believe me try it sometime. This is really an aspect of the Law of Attraction in action. 

Also, don't expect to receive anything back from the specific person that you gave to. As a matter of fact, you should have NO expectations whatsoever in giving. If you do, then you are not truly giving.  The smile that you give today, will come back to you in a smile that you receive from another totally different person the next day, (or sooner).  It's all the same...because we are all ONE!  

That person that you gave a beautiful smile to the previous day is an extension or is ONE with the person, (or people), who give you one, (or more), beautiful smiles today. Remember, you usually receive more than you give. This is all part of the Universal flow that governs the Universe and the sooner that we get in sync with this powerful flow, the sooner we will transform our lives.

"We are never truly more alive than when we live in a state of constant awe of everything that exists in the Universe. The very fact that anything exists at all is a miracle. Life itself is a miracle."

Enoch Tan

The Law Of Reciprocity is a basis of trust and a basis for legitimate power. The principle is that others will reciprocate in kind based upon the way you treat them. In other words, the world gives you what you give the world, or, again,.....you reap what you sow!

Many people "give" (or don't give), based  "on conditions, strings or judgement."An example of this is when someone refuses to give to a beggar on the street because they are concerned that the money they give will be used for drugs or alcohol. 

True Giving Has NO CONDITIONS, STRINGS Or JUDGEMENT!

If you are giving, (or not giving), based on any kind of judgement, strings attached or conditions...then you are NOT truly giving because giving only comes from the heart. In the example of the beggar on the street, to truly give, you must realize that it's really none of your business what the beggar is going to do with the money you give him. 

That's the beggar's issue or business, not yours. Your ONLY issue is from what space were you giving the money and to truly give, the only "space" that counts is the space that comes from your heart.

"True and authentic giving can ONLY come from the heart."

Pamela K. Jones

For the record, I'm not advocating giving your money away to beggars on the street. For full disclosure, I don't usually give to beggars on the street, not because I am concerned about how the beggar will use the money I gave him, but because my consciousness prevents me from doing so because I would have to see the beggar as lacking, less than me, unequal or as a victim and my giving money to him would only support that totally false and limiting perception. 

In other words, I would be supporting a lie!

Sorry, my mind, consciousness and heart simply can't go there..even for a "beggar".  That falsehood is not the space where my heart resides. In other words, I view my giving money to a beggar as perpetuating a fraud; as disempowering him versus empowering him. 

I have immense love, respect and reverence for my fellow human beings, regardless of their circumstances or conditions.This website is a prime example of just how I feel about and see humanity at large, and my vantage point sees no lack, limitation or inequality of any kind in anyone, thank you very much!   

It's the same issue that I have with "homeless feeding programs". I know that the hearts of the people who sponsor, volunteer and support these programs are definitely in the right place in terms of helping people and giving of themselves, and I am not in any way finding fault with them, but my question is...are "homeless feeding programs" really HELPING the person in need? Okay, you come out on a Saturday morning or on a major holiday to "feed the hungry ONE meal"...

...and you actually think THAT'S helping them??? 

Hello...what about the other meals needed to sustain them on non-holiday/non-weekend days? Do these people ONLY deserve meals on "special ocassions" like holidays and weekends? What about the other average 3 meals needed daily for survival, 7 days a week...or do we just not allow ourselves to think about that pink elephant in the room? 

Aren't these individuals worthy and deserving of food EVERYDAY, multiple times a day even? If this does not reveal the sheer ineffectiveness, (and worse), of "homeless feeding programs" I don't know what does! First, let me receive a bit of absolution...

"He has a right to criticize who has a heart to help."

Abraham Lincoln

Thanks again Mr. Lincoln! First, most "homeless feeding programs" create a totally false perception among the people who are serving these sporadic meals that this is actually helping or solving the problem.  It is NOT! Yes, it makes the volunteers "feel good" and feel like they are "helping" but the only problem with that scenario is that their "perceptions" that they are actually helping these people are only an illusion, meaning they are totally false! 

How is aligning with and perpetuating the illusion by reinforcing the notion in an individual's mind and consciousness, who may be temporarily "down on their luck" or having hard times, that they are helpless and need you to provide them with the most basic human need imaginable "food" helping them? 

What is this actually doing for that person in need beyond that one meal and, more importantly, what is it doing for that person's mindset and sense of inner self worth? How does this ultimately help them? How is it in any way EMPOWERING them? 

I can see if the homeless feeding program was utilized as a precursor to the only true alternative of addressing the larger issue of hunger, which is enabling people to empower themselves to be able to eventually feed themselves, but unfortunately, most homeless feeding programs are NOT empowering people in this way and are only "feeding or prolonging the hunger problem" instead of being an actual solution to the problem. 

This is particularly true for homeless feeding programs which may surprisingly be sponsored and promoted by New Spirituality Organizations and Communities whose primary purpose is supposedly promoting Self Awareness and Self Realization.

And, let's just get real here...isn't a "homeless feeding program" sponsored by an Organization or Community whose main purpose is to promote Self Awareness and Self Realization an "Oxymoron"?

Definition of the word "Oxymoron" from Merriam Webster's Dictionary:

"Something, (as a concept), that is made up of contradictory or incongruous elements."

Come on people, it's time to WAKE UP...and that includes many who "think" they are already awake!

If you really want to get deep about it, how can you really and truly see this same person that you are feeding, providing the most primal and basic human necessity imaginable, food, as your TRUE equal? 

I answer with what I know will be seen as a very provocative and controversial answer, but meant with no offense...you CAN'T see this person as your equal in that circumstance. It may be on a subconscious level, but it is nevertheless true.  

Again, this is not to find fault with kindhearted individuals who participate in these programs because this is all that is available to currently help homeless individuals. It is, however, to hopefully get people to first begin to THINK instead of mindlessly going along with the status quo, and then to "think differently", to think more imaginatively and more originally, the goal being to actually SOLVE the problem instead of merely prolonging or sustaining it.  

It's to encourage people to create New Paradigm Solutions instead of forever clinging to Old Paradigm Illusions. This CAN be done because we can do ANYTHING we put our minds to....that is if we finally begin to start really putting our minds towards finding and/or supporting a REAL solution! 

Anything Is Possible!

Sympathy: an affinity, association, or relationship between persons or things wherein whatever effects one similarly affects the other.

Affinity: an attractive force between substances or particles that causes them to enter into and remain in chemical combination.

Merriam - Webster Dictionary

We are taught early in life to be "sympathetic" to another's plight. This is what society has taught ALL of us, whether it be in relation to death, tragedy, misfortune, etc. In addition to the above definition of the word "sympathy" from Merriam - Webster Dictionary, American Heritage Dictionary's take on sympathy is:

"A feeling or an expression of pity or sorrow for the distress of another, compassion or commiseration."

I think we already get the feel for what the word "pity" means in addition to knowing that it is not a desired state that we would want directed at ourselves, so why would we feel it is "okay" to direct it towards someone else, but this did prompt me to look up the definition for the word "sorrow."

Sorrow: mental suffering or pain caused by injury, loss or despair.

American Heritage Dictionary

Okay...so we have sympathy being defined in two separate dictionaries. Let's take the word "affinity" from the Merriam Webster definition and the word "sorrow" from the American Heritage definition.  Put these two words together and we get...

An "affinity" with "sorrow" aka "mental suffering or pain caused by injury, loss or despair".

As the definition for "affinity" states, affinity is, (paraphrasing) "an attractive force entered into and remained in combination (with)."

So, in essence, when we are in "sympathy" with another person's "plight" as in the "beggar's" situation, we are in actuality "attracting, entering and remaining in the "idea" of another's mental suffering or despair." 

We are creating a resonance to that "idea", empowering it, reinforcing it, and solidifying it. And guess what Universal Law is in effect and guiding this entire process when this happens? 

The Law Of Attraction, of course, via the Universal Principle of "like attracts like."

This is why I have come to the realization that, although definitely not the intention, what sympathy does in reality in this particular situation, (aka the beggar), is to support "victim consciousness". It not only supports the victim consciousness within the beggar, but also, as the definition of sympathy clears states, helps to create an "affinity" to that victim consciousness state with the person in "sympathy" with the beggar. From my viewpoint, this means that in reality...

"Sympathy is actually complicity with the illusion in disguise."

Pamela K. Jones

In reality, your sympathy does not solve or help anyone's misery. To be blunt, it only reinforces and prolongs it. On the other hand, your deliberate choice and redirected focus on creating or supporting something NEW aka "A New Reality", which instead EMPOWERS them, will eventually solve or dispel the illusion. 

Withdrawing your focus of attention from sympathy, which only supports victim consciousness and re-focusing with deliberate intent on creating a "New Experience" for the many caught up in the "illusion of lack", the sooner the illusion will cease to exist. 

When that happens, all will eventually stand for who they really and truly are. Withdrawing your focus of attention from sympathy and bringing it towards creating a new experience or reality, will bring the desired change for these individuals far more quickly then repeatedly giving aid while considering them to be "poor victims." This is where trust and faith in "the real" comes in. 

When you choose to place your intent beyond the illusion perceived by the 5 senses or the "tangible", and place it instead on the "intangible" aka the vision, and then take action on creating something new and empowering, or at the very least supporting others who are, you are withdrawing your consent and support of the illusion which you no longer wish to participate in. In our "consensus driven" world this can be a bit of a challenge...but anything worthwhile in life is. It's the "easy" things that should give us all pause.

"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect."

Mark Twain

Does this all sound "insensitive" or worse, "hard-hearted?"

Well, from my point of view, it's "hard-hearted" to play any part in supporting a victim consciousness which repetitively focuses on reinforcing the "illusion" of lack, limitation and helplessness, versus focusing on seeing people, even those who "seem" to be helpless, limited and needy, as who they really and truly are..."Immanations of the Divine in Physical Form", as we ALL are! 

"Repetition does not transform a lie into a truth."

Franklin D. Roosevelt

I would like to repeat yet again, this is NOT to find fault with the many well intentioned and kindhearted individuals, organizations, charities, etc. out there who have chosen this path of service to help people, (with the exception of the type of organizations already mentioned above who should truly know better), but it is to hopefully inspire people, (and organizations), to again,"think differently", to solve versus perpetuate; to shed light on the REAL truth of the matter to hopefully inspire individuals to begin to use their innate creative genius and originality to come up with empowering solutions to actually SOLVE the hunger and poverty issue in this country and around the world versus only perpetuating and reinforcing the problem, which is exactly what the majority of homeless feeding programs and the like do. 

"The highest way to help people is to empower people to help themselves."

Pamela K. Jones

If I can encourage just ONE person via this writing, whose life's mission is in this particular field, to begin using their vast creative genius towards that end, it's worth it to me. This is really a "wake up call" to get down to the real truth of the matter and to ask the serious question, in regard to the true value of homeless feeding programs...are they REALLY a part of the solution...or are they actually just feeding and sustaining the problem? How are they empowering people, and if they are not, what can be done to change that?

"Where my heart lies, let my brain lie also."

Robert Browning

If the hunger issue continues to be addressed in this manner, it will go on forever and that is NOT an option in the New Paradigm. The New Paradigm is all about Empowerment, ladies and gentlemen or did you not "get" the true message of this website? 

It is time for us to come up with original, creative and innovative SOLUTIONS and to quit the unimaginative, status quo, conventional wisdom mindset currently in place. It is time to totally stop unoriginal and uninspired "stop gap" efforts that are currently in place and predominant in our society. 

A New Paradigm Requires New & Empowering Thinking, Ideas & Solutions! 

Okay...I'm off my soap box!

To review two remarkable organizations that are each working as an actual SOLUTION to the homeless and hunger problems versus perpetuating or prolonging the problems, I recommend that you review the following great examples of two organizations, both featured at the beginning of two web pages on this website to see how "Empowerment versus Disempowerment" most definitely CAN be done...if you put your mind to it:

The Hunger Project, whose motto is "Empowering Women and Men to end their own hunger", is featured at the beginning of the web page titled, "Law of Attraction Tools".

Reality Shifts, a homeless organization whose motto is "Providing a helping hand, not a handout", is featured at the beginning of the web page titled, "Developing Your Intuition."

Feel free to support these outstandingly innovative organizations if you choose to!

Continuing with the writing, my thinking in regard to "beggars" and others in similarly challenged circumstances is...just because someone else sees themself as less than, limited, unworthy or unequal does not mean that I have to support that viewpoint. 

Hardly!  

So, given what I "know" about humanity at large, that EVERYONE has merit, immense ability, true worth and pure genius within them, the ONLY way that I can ever truly "help" anyone is via Empowerment versus Disempowerment; by shining light on and supporting what I know to be true about them, their innate goodness, ability and genius versus supporting the totally false perception of their lack, inequality or limitation. In other words...

I Can't Support The Illusion! 

"There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside of them, (the illusion), for reality and never allow the world within, (the real), to assert itself."

Hermann Hesse

The Secret Wealth Network's multiple Humanitarian Efforts are all about EMPOWERMENT to the individuals that they support. For example, here are just a fraction of them:

  • The Literacy Site is all about providing poor and low income children with the precious gift of books and other educational needs with the end being again...Self Empowerment Thru Literacy & Education!
  • The Child Health Site is about ensuring that children receive basic and preventive healthcare and nutritional needs to have the opportunity to grow up healthy and live their dreams.
  • The Hunger Site is about addressing the immediate emergency of famine and extreme hunger world-wide.
  • Vitamin Angel is about providing poor and low income children with their basic nutritional vitamin needs so that they can become strong, healthy...and Empowered!
  • Kiva USA is not about giving a "hand out" to poor people while disempowering them in the process, but about giving them a "hand up" by empowering poor women and families worldwide by enabling them to provide for themselves and their families via Self Employment and Business Enterprise....and more! 

The Secret Wealth Network's Unique and Innovative Humanitarian Model is a PERFECT example of "thinking big" and thinking creatively with the eventual outcome being Empowerment for the people we are helping with this unique Success System and Model, versus "thinking small" (and with zero imagination), with there being no different outcome because supporting a "hand to mouth existence", solely dependent on someone else, only perpetuates the situation for the person who is in need. The situation leads nowhere...it either remains static aka the same...or it gets worse for that person. A clear example of Empowerment versus Disempowerment!

How Does This All Relate To The Law Of Reciprocity?

Let's look at the definition of the law once again:

The Law Of Reciprocity is to give and take mutually; to return in kind or even in another kind or degree.

By empowering the people that you are helping by enabling or supporting them in eventually being able to help and support themselves, you are in turn also helping these same individuals to eventually empower and help others aka to continue the cycle of giving governed by the Law Of Reciprocity.

When you disempower people by supporting the illusion of their helplessness, limitation and powerlessness by giving them "hand outs only", you are only helping to perpetuate the lie of that person's limitation and powerlessness, while at the same time breaking the Universal Cycle. 

How is that person that you are "helping" with your hand out ever going to continue the cycle of giving governed by the Law Of Reciprocity and in turn help others, if they cannot even see beyond the illusion of them being unable to help and support themselves? This proves that the very nature of the current status quo or consensus mentality governing the majority of "homeless feeding programs" in truth totally violates Universal Law. 

They stop the universal, recipricol cycle dead in it's tracks. Of course, homeless feeding programs is just one very tiny example of a much broader and larger picture that needs to change...but change it must! 

It's time to "get with the program" that program being aligning with the Laws of the Universe in all that we do in life and leave this old, tired, unimaginative, ineffective "Old Paradigm" way of doing things behind, once and for all. That is what this New Paradigm...this New Era is all about ladies and gentlemen!

I am going to repeat a quote that I already included on this web page above, but which I think bears repeating in this instance because of it's immense importance:

"The highest way to help people is to EMPOWER people to help themselves."

Pamela K. Jones

In terms of helping and supporting others, EMPOWERMENT is the ONLY game in town in the New Paradigm, ladies and gentlemen! 

To give a specific example of my idea of "helping" or empowering people who may be in severe and trying circumstances in relation to this actual website, there is a web page on this website titled,"Read Books Online Here".  

The inspiration for the creation of this particular web page came after I read a news story a few months ago about there being a record number of men and women incarcerated in prison in this country.   

Since I figured that it may be kind of difficult for prisoners to print out Ebooks or download items, I wanted to create a web page where prisoners and others in extremely limiting circumstances, like homeless people, could at least have access to this empowering knowledge via at least being able to read it online. 

"There is no saint without a past, and no sinner without a future."

Babaji

I knew that most prisons have Internet access, which prisoners have access to regularly and many homeless people utilize the public libraries for free internet access. When I said I created this website for EVERYONE, I was not kidding! I wanted to try to give as many people as possible access to the Choice of Self Empowerment via this revolutionary website.

I created the web page titled, "Free Success Audios" because I knew that people learn in different ways. Some people are auditory, meaning they learn more effectively by listening to the lesson versus reading it. Some also like to download audio lessons onto their iPod or burn them to CDs so they can listen while driving, walking or working out. 

The "Free Success Audios" web page was also created because I had read a recent article that spoke about the hidden illiteracy problem in this country and worldwide, so that these people could at least listen to self empowering messages if they could not read them.

"The task of leadership is not to put greatness into people, but to elicit it, for the greatness is there already."

John Buchan 

There are also people from other countries who can understand English but not yet read it. Other web pages that would be helpful are "Take Classes By Phone","Discover Mastery TV","Cool Music For Your Soul", "Law Of Attraction TV", etc. 

There are many paths and ways of learning highlighted on this website and I tried to cover as many of them as possible to include as much of the WHOLE as possible.

Getting back to the Law, you might ask yourself; How does the Law Of Reciprocity apply to me? 

How should I respond?

In the Divine system, we are created as a channel to SERVE OTHERS. Whether you realize this consciously or not, this is our ULTIMATE purpose, our reason for being here. Setting resources in motion, sets spiritual forces in action for you to receive your actions.  Practice doing good deeds when opportunities present themselves. 

"You give before you get."

Napoleon Hill

To quote again from Mark Victor Hansen:

  • Only Giving works at a soul level and radiates outward to every area of your experience.
  • Only Giving opens up your heart and soul.
  • Only Giving creates human dignity.
  • Only Giving can miraculously change a life.
  • Only Givers live a truly fulfilled, powerful, positive, happy and deeply meaningful life.
  • Only Givers get.

The Law Of Reciprocity isn't always instantaneous, therefore persistence is vital. At the proper and perfect time, you will reap your harvest.

Start with a smile. It will come back to you! 

Give ideas! Give money! Give support! Give resources! 

Give your time! Give your talents! Give your service!

Repay, in kind, what another has provided you and watch the cycle of giving and receiving, via your simple actions, unleash upon your world! 

Begin by gifting this website to everyone you come into contact with!

Open yourself up and allow all of the good that you deserve into your life!

What have you got to lose? Peace!

Acting With Love Energy Leads To Increase Of Life

By Enoch Tan

Everything that we do is imbued with the energy of our consciousness. Two people might do the same action but each is putting in a different kind of energy according to his or her mental state and attitude. The energy that we put into our actions will be received by those whom our actions affect. It is the love energy or the lack of it that we are giving. This energy affects all that we do and the kind of results we get. We also desire to receive this love energy from others in what they do for us.
 
Love energy is present when people are loving what they do or are doing it with love. Without love energy, our actions are dead works because they lack the life and meaning that is meant to be present in them. We are all here not just to do what we are required to do in order to sustain life, but we are here to live life and help others to experience life as well. Life requires action to exist. Anything that is not moving is dead. All that is alive expresses itself in motion.
 
Life is love in action. That is why sitting still and not doing anything eventually leads to decay and disintegration of being. Life is experienced by connecting with others.  The more alive a group of living beings is, the more they are connecting and interacting with one another. To connect requires motion to make the connection. Every activity that is presented in this world is for the purpose of making that connection between people. The evolution of life is the evolution of the ways that we can connect.
 
In the earlier part of the history of life, there were lesser things available for we humans to do in order to interact with one another. As time went by, more ways and means were developed to experience life with each other. Greater and more varied forms of communication, transport and social systems were invented. All these technological and cultural advancements in society is for the purpose of making the whole world more connected and integrated.
 
But with all these changes, the only thing that truly connects people is the love energy that is present in their actions. When we do something without love energy, there is no connection between us and the person we do it to. In this world of high tech, people need to experience high touch even more than ever before. In any transaction that is being made between two or more humans, there is a need for real interaction instead of just automated communication. We want to experience each other for real.
 
When we put our heart in what we do and show that we are truly present in our actions, we will give people what they really need which is the increase of life. What comes from the heart goes to the heart. When we enjoy doing something, when we have passion for it, when we are enthusiastic and genuinely desire to benefit others, that is when we are putting love energy in what we do. In essence, all that we are really doing is communicating love.
 
Anything that is experienced without love energy is empty. That is why people still feel empty when they have obtained a thing or service from another. There was no love energy present in the work done. The person was doing it purely out of job requirement or obligation. There was no real passion in the service, which results in no real enjoyment for the person receiving it. What we want is not material things from others, but the love which they can offer through those things and with those things.
 
Why do you think receptionists are told to be courteous and have friendly attitude towards callers they are speaking with? Why do you think waiters at restaurants are instructed to smile and show warmth to those that dine in? Why do you think we all know instinctively the need to create a positive experience with whoever we do business with? It is all for the purpose of showing love to those we interact with. Money makes the world go round but only love makes this world a better place.
 
Don’t go through the motions of doing something just for the sake of doing it. There is no life or love in it and you are doing it no differently from a machine. The energy that you put into your actions will determine the kind of effect it has on another. If you do something for others with love, they will respond with love and appreciation. Let there be an exchange of love energy in all that you experience. Express appreciation and acknowledgement to others that come into interaction with you.
 
You can also change the energy by which others are working with. If you see someone doing something just because it is part of their job and they are clearly not showing passion or joy in what they do, just a smile and a word of appreciation from you will brighten up their day. One moment they were doing it without love energy, but the next moment, they will be doing it with love energy because you have given it to them. You have enlivened them with life which they will share with others that come after you.
 
Love is the only thing which is real, everything else is illusion. If you can see the truth, you will know that all the activities that humans do are just various forms of expressing the same energy to one another which is love. Do yourself and others a favor by choosing work not for the money but to express your love. Choose also to receive only from others who put love in what they do. Increase life for others as well as for yourself. The more love energy you receive, the more you will have to give.

"The moment has the answer!"

Mitch W. Steel

Peace and Blessings!

Pam